If you are the host, you should definitely take control. A few things; ensure you follow the matire d’ allowing your guests to follow you so that you can direct everyone where to sit when arriving at the table. If there are more than 4 people then I recommend using place cards. This takes a lot of stress out of the situation.
If you are the host, you should sit at the head of the table with the most senior person at the other head of the table. Then place everyone according in rank to your right, then his or her right, and then to the left of you and so on.
Watch this video to see how the “leader” looses control by not showing someone to his or her seat! Look for the other mistakes too!
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